The SUPPORT Key: a connection to others
When you are stuck in the pain of a challenge, it means at least one of the Four Keys is missing. To begin moving through your pain into your power ask, “Which key is missing?” Read on to find out if the SUPPORT Key is thriving in your life! Consider this quote:
“When you come to the edge of all the light you know and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing that one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on, or you will be taught how to fly. ~ Barbara J. Winter
How many of us would take that risk? When SUPPORT is fully expressed in your life, you trust yourself to overcome fear and believe the world will respond with actions to match these beliefs. When SUPPORT is dormant, we tend to put security and predictability above exploration and expression.
The ability to ask for SUPPORT is critical in transforming painful challenges. SUPPORT casts light into your dark, shadowy basement of pain. Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night and seen a silhouette in a corner that seemed threatening? As you stare with heart pounding fear, you have a choice; continue to blink and quake in the darkness, or reach out and turn on the light. Reaching out for SUPPORT allows you to view painful challenges in a whole different light.
How many times have you wanted something, but never asked for it because you decided that what you wanted wasn’t possible? Or maybe you decided what you wanted was too demanding, too selfish, too … whatever. Believing that what you want isn’t possible causes pain and suffering. In reality, what you want may be quite possible with the support of others. But you will never know until you give it voice. Regardless of the reason you think you stay silent, it usually boils down to fear. Fear of asking, fear of not receiving, fear of judgment, fear of imposing; the list is endless. Fear feeds on silence. Speaking your wants and needs is the only way to diminish fear.
Is SUPPORT expressed in your life?
Discover where you’ve created roadblocks to SUPPORT, evaluate sources of SUPPORT and find ways to build strong, vital SUPPORT in your life.
Take the online Key Test to find out which Key you need to start moving through your pain into your power!